I have been neglecting my blog for a few weeks now, and I can’t say that I am proud of that at all. But at the same time, I never intended for the blog to become a chore. And unfortunately, with all the rest of my life’s challenges in the past few weeks, that is how I felt. To say I didn’t have the time, would only be half the truth. The other half is probably more relevant: which is that I was lacking the motivation.
But, my friends, since it is Monday, and it is a new, fresh day, I am making an official commitment to get back to blogging regularly. You know, it feels quite embarrassing to be admitting your mistakes to the entire blogosphere like this, but it also feels liberating.
So, now that I have made this commitment to you in writing, I give you all a permission to hold me accountable if you see me slacking. I think it is important to try and find a way to stay motivated, even if you feel as though it is missing. The hardest thing in life, is to START something. The next hardest thing is to maintain something… So, knowing and accepting those challenges laying ahead, lets move forward.
This Week’s Hits are:
- My robe! I can’t entirely understand and explain it, but something really magical and so super comforting happens every time I slide my comfy robe on. Somehow the warm, cozy softness that envelopes my body is quite reassuring in a way that makes me feel like all is well with the world, and that I am protected and comforted by the plush feeling of the fabric against my skin. I love my robe, and if you’re not a robe-wearer (yes, I am aware that I just made up that word), I suggest you invest in a good quality, soft & cozy robe. You will be glad you did! Just imagine shedding all of your days clothes and the stresses & worries along with it, taking a nice, relaxing shower, and then allowing the plush feeling of the fabric to comfort you! Oooh… cozy! =)
- Pets! I was driving past a park last week, and while stopped at a red light, I witnessed a simple scene that put a huge smile on my face. A couple came to the park with their cute little doggies, and as soon as they let them off the leash the dogs took off like there is no tomorrow! After I observed them for a few more seconds, I realized there was a reason to their madness! The doggies were chasing after poor little, scared to death squirrels! I know it might be mean to say, because I am sure the squirrel didn’t think it was funny, but it was a hilarious little scene to witness. That moment made me really miss having a pet at home, because they truly give you so much unconditional love and happiness and do some pretty funny stuff that always seems to bring a smile to everyone’s face. We are currently looking to adopt a new kitten to our family, so if anyone can help out, let me know!
This Week’s Misses are:
- Liars. One thing I really pride myself on, is being open and friendly to everyone I come into contact with, and not having any enemies in my life. Well, that is what I thought up until yesterday. I will spare you the details of exactly what happened, but someone, that still remains anonymous to me, has said a pretty terrible lie about me to someone special in my life to deliberately try and screw up my relationship with that person. Although, I don’t have any anger towards that individual, it just puzzles me. How can someone be so miserable and cruel to want to do bad onto another on purpose?! It would be easy for me to judge that person, and want to wish bad upon them back, but you know what? I will not do that. Instead I will pray for them to be liberated from the dark forces of the EGO, and instead find a place within that derives from Love, Peace & Light.
And in case you are curious, I’m glad to report that although it came pretty close to an end, thankfully their dark lie did not ruin my relationship at the end of it all.
Moral of the story: Be open & trust everyone, until they give you a solid reason not to. Otherwise, you, yourself run the risk of living a miserable life. And it is just not worth it! Life is way too short to waste it on negative people, emotions or situations!
Lets keep on smiling, despite it all!
Can any of you guys relate to my situation? Have you ever had to deal with lies being told about you? How did you manage the situation? Please share your thoughts in the comments below. I love to read them! =)
Thank you for sharing
I love the picture of the pedicure puppy! Totally awesome. I want a pet so much!! Not possible right now and way to expensive but maybe one day! Your robe sounds wonderful. Thanks for sharing the story about the puppies in the park.
I’m glad you’re back! I enjoy reading your weekly hits and misses (reminds me of the little things we forget about that make us happy, and that we’re not alone in the little bumps along the road)
The last time I had to deal with lies told about me was in highschool (which wasn’t too long ago) but there was really nothing I could do about it except get angry and upset. But at the end of the day, those who love you will be there no matter what.
Keep on writing Leyla, people are reading!